Morality determines how circumstances take shape, and circumstances determine morality. From Rumi's timeless words of wisdom we have chosen those on the virtues and on wrong conduct.
Conduct to Follow
- › The virtues are to be practised, and it is advisable to live by them; let the virtues not remain mere words and principles. On the tongue of a fool a wise word is, after all, only a borrowed kaftan.
- › Humility is the beautiful virtue that does honour to good people. The tree weighed down by its fruit bows to the ground, while the barren one stretches up to the sky. As the fruit multiplies, the bearing branches are propped up, lest they break off.
- › A trustworthy word is the sign of a man's fidelity, and it is the faithful who deserve Paradise.
- › Forbearance is the key to relief, which wards off every kind of hardship.
- › Let us pray to the Lord to bless us with the strength of self-discipline, for whoever is without self-discipline cannot enjoy even the grace of God. The undisciplined man not only ruins himself but sets the whole world ablaze.
- › I swear by the sacred person of the Lord that a venomous snake is better than a false friend. A venomous snake takes only a man's life when it bites him, but a false friend casts him into the eternal fire. Your heart secretly drinks in the inclinations of your companion, without his saying a single word. If the shadow of such a companion falls upon you, the man without scruple will rob you of your virtues.
- › Go, help others. Time will value your help, and it never forgets the one who has mercy on others. Until now everyone has left his wealth behind, and you too will leave your own wealth behind. Better, then, that in place of a legacy of wealth, a legacy of goodwill should remain after us.
Conduct to Avoid
- › Envy is the worst of habits, the seed of every other fault and failing.
- › To criticise the absent is like stuffing yourself with human flesh. From God there is no hiding the foul breath of the slanderer.
- › The corrupt and lying man is forever breaking his oath, while the virtuous man need not even swear. Lying awakens suspicion in a man's heart, but truth brings it peace.
- › Wallowing in riches is like a morsel caught in a man's throat. It is this trifling morsel that keeps the man who wallows in worldly pleasures and plenty from at last sipping the elixir of life, which would grant him eternal happiness.
- › It was pride that swept Satan into his eternal and irrevocable doom, although he had once been among the angels.
- › Waste is not good, and the basest waste of all is idle pastime.
- › Let a man first of all strive to correct his own faults, and not busy himself with the weaknesses of others. Whoever sees a fault in another most likely suffers himself from the very ill he perceives there.
- › The oppressor must bear the consequences of his tyranny. Whoever afflicts others torments himself.