The worldly person, living amid transience, agrees with the first half of the sentence, and so tries to squeeze as much experiencing, or pleasure, as possible out of every moment. Live for today! – we only live once, so let us make the most of this little time… and yes, we try to avoid suffering, yet again and again we stumble into it, and we try to follow the trail of joy, but it runs away from us all the same.
The spiritual person agrees with the first half of the sentence only in the light of its second half. Then the saying lifts our life into another dimension. Perhaps it lays a greater responsibility upon us, for it reveals that in truth there is no idling, that in eternal life there is no rest or holiday, while at the same time perhaps we are given more time for everything. It eases the cramp of ‘now or never’, and so brings peace to our mind and heart, and what is more, the consciousness of eternal life reveals in a flash a possibility that ought to be pondered with reverence. What can we do with the fullness entrusted to us, with infinite time, enough even to carry out the plans we thought impossible? Is this not a turning point in our thinking? A brief seventy or eighty years gives little chance to trace a great arc, but in eternal time even a long course can be conceived. The quality of life is shaped at its root by the picture we form of our horizons. If we subordinate our deeds to short-term goals, only a small arc of life awaits us. What matters is a long-term aim in life, one that may arch across several lives, in which the shorter stages are subordinate to the final goal and serve to bring it about. Whoever has no final goal merely creates his own anarchy in confused haste.
It is also true that the thought of one, yet eternal life allows no self-deception. It will not do to be very spiritual people during our morning meditation and then to act all day long as ordinary self-seekers. It is not Sunday religiosity that we need, but abiding wisdom, elevated awareness, inner purification. In the light of lived wisdom, the experiences we gain of the world are transformed.
Once the three great elders of the East met: Confucius, Buddha and Lao Tzu. They set about a joint inquiry, scrutinising the contents of a vinegar jar. Master Kung, the realist, put his finger into the jar, licked it, pursed his lips and said: This is sour! Next came the great pessimist, Buddha, who likewise dipped his finger into the contents of the jar and declared: This is not sour, this is bitter! Last came Lao Tzu, the wise observer of nature, who also tasted the contents of the jar and, licking his finger, said: This is not sour, nor is it bitter, this is sweet!
In the name of quick and easy growth, much intellectual rubbish is proclaimed: ‘Love yourself, trust yourself!’ – but without real purification, sacrifice and spiritual work, this is utterly groundless. An elevated, purified state of consciousness is needed if we are to trust ourselves, for then we shall see things as they really are. Also fashionable nowadays is the idea that the things of life must be accepted as they are, that we must identify with them. ‘If you smile, you are a smile, if you love, you are love, if you attend, you are attention, if you speak, you are the word…’ If, however, we carry this train of thought further, ‘if you are angry, you are anger, if you identify with suffering, you are suffering’?! We must find the hidden passage between self-deception and masochism. For many live foolishly, and few die wisely…