What drives man? If it were only the primal instincts, he would be no different from the creatures of primal instinct, the animals. And this is not demeaning, but simply means that a man so motivated lives together with nature, is part of nature, and fulfils the functions that belong to this plane of existence.
One such function is hoarding, which, at bottom, is driven by the fear of losing existence. The man who lives in dread hoards the necessities of life, and with them tries to lull the terror of passing away. The security of a livelihood and the insecurity of existence – what a contradiction! A hero, however, gathers virtues instead of practising the virtue of hoarding, and so he becomes brave. Whoever only hoards easily turns bourgeois, and with knick-knacks set out on lace doilies in a display cabinet he tries to protect himself, indeed to justify his existence. Yet the things people usually long for are not ends but means. The display cabinet is only a sham abundance. True abundance, on the other hand, is a cosmic principle, and so the service of abundance stands in harmony with the law of the universe. Besides, one must become not rich but content: this is the true inner, spiritual abundance. According to Tagore, our calling is not acquisition but existence.
Another motivating factor is freedom. Captivity is generally regarded as something to be rejected, and man is ready to fight for freedom as a principle. Freedom, too, is a world-shaping factor, a principle, and honouring, approaching and serving it is an important task in life. And this is the method by which freedom is also conferred on man. And again: instead of outer freedom one should strive for inner independence; this is true freedom, which, then, does not depend on conditions. Captivity can therefore offer a splendid opportunity to examine freedom and to live it.
When a man loses everything, he lives through it as a tragedy, but if he manages to turn his feelings round, he may experience a wonderful sense of freedom. The loss of attachments hurts, but it is precisely through this that he can come to feel freedom. It is this feeling that must be seized and sustained, even when the objects later return.
Happiness – how madly does desire drive man in pursuit of it?! To increase happiness and to avoid suffering is perhaps a legitimate striving, and yet most often it is our happiness that is lost, and our trials that multiply.
Either the bridge burns behind you, or the far shore beckons. One driving force of motivation, then, is fleeing from something; the other, striving towards something – when the goals to be reached drive man far beyond his supposed, even his actual, limits. According to the wise, one must go to the utmost limits, but it is not martyrs that are needed. In striving, too, one must find the optimum that neither overstrains nor slackens before its time.
For the game of life – now a comedy, now a tragedy – to be played out well, it is worth agreeing on the rules of the game. Much is possible, but not everything is permitted. Certain patterns of behaviour may be well known, yet they do not appear among the rules of the game. Past a certain point there is no turning back. If you have set off, why would you turn back? The fault is never in our surroundings, in the world, in the other person, but in our reactions to impulses. In an emergency, of course, it is hard to react with deliberation, but awareness helps here too, and it is often the calmer one who wins.
A life of too much, meaningless work wears out the body, while one that demands too little effort consumes the soul. Our livelihood is what we receive, and our life is what we give. On the level of principles it is easier to accept the state of the world and the behaviour of people, though this does not mean that one has to agree with them. On the plane of practical experience, however, it is immensely hard to agree with stupidity, lack of vision, violence or evil. In man there lives unrest; among the principles, peace.